Appreciate Him

My husband is my everything. He is the reason I get up in the morning, and the reason I smile all day long. I am a homemaker; I stay at home with our three year old all day and take care of our household, our assets, etc. Meanwhile, my husband goes to work, works 10 to 12 hour days, and usually comes home stressed and upset. But oh, how he loves me. When he comes in the door, he doesn't even take off his hat before kissing me. He won't say hi to our boy, use the restroom, or do ANYTHING until he has found me, held me, and told me how much he loves me. Every day, I wait until he gets home to make dinner because he likes to help me, and everyday, he tries to kick me out of the kitchen, telling me to put my feet up because I must be tired, and he's got everything under control. He's the one that's tired! But he doesn't care. He takes care of me. There isn't a morning or night that goes by that he doesn't tell me how absolutely beautiful I am. There isn't one hour that goes by that he doesn't tell me how much he loves me. Why does he do it? How did I find the perfect husband? Well, all I can say is that I found him by the grace of God, and he does it because I appreciate him. Men need to know, above all other things, that what they're doing is not only noticed, but appreciated, valued, and supported. The next time you find yourself lying in bed lying on his shoulder, STOP. Get up, prop yourself up, and let him lay on yours. Then lean down and whisper into his ear how much you value everything he does for you. Remind him that you are there for him no matter what, and that you will love him come hell or high water. My husband gives a sigh of relief every time. Men need to know they are appreciated. You'd be surprised what a difference it makes.--submitted by Jennifer

Reading this post does makes me think for a while... do I appreciate D ? Do I make him feel valued? Does he know that I really love him? Men are just like us ladies... want to be loved and pampered. Well, who doesnt enjoy that regardless man/woman? I know I want to be loved and pampered like a princess, appreciated and valued by the one I love... How about you? *wink*

Both mine and his birthdays are just around the corner and I've got a little silly plan in mind...
A surprise for him I would say... just pray hard that it wont screwed up and hope things go smoothly next weekend...